Human Resources News & Insights

Answers to tricky HR questions: Unmarried parents and the FMLA

Our team of experts fields real-life, everyday questions from HR managers and gives practical answers that can be applied by any HR pro in the same situation. Today’s question: How does FMLA apply to two unmarried employees who’ve just had a child together?

Question

We have two employees who have a child together but aren’t married. How does that affect their FMLA eligibility?

Answer

Both the father and mother are entitled to 12 weeks of  leave — each, according to Jeff  Nowak (jsn@franczek.com), writing on the FMLA Insights blog.

As you know, under FMLA, workers are entitled to 12 weeks of unpaid leave for various reasons, including the arrival of a child.

There’s an interesting wrinkle in the law, though: When a married couple works for the same employer, the father and mother are only entitled to a combined 12 weeks of FMLA leave.

When mom and dad aren’t married, they’re each eligible for 12 weeks of leave.

Careful, though: Some states have closed this loophole. Check your local laws.

Sample Category CTA

This is the Category CTA

Subscribe Today

Get the latest and greatest Human Resources news and insights delivered to your inbox.
  • Lauren

    “Careful, though: Some states have closed this loophole.”

    Wouldn’t federal law (FMLA) precede state leave laws? I don’t think state law overrules the FMLA. If FMLA applies and the 2 unmarried employees are FMLA-eligible, they are entitled to FMLA leave regardless of state statute.

  • HR Annie

    That is exactly what I would have thought. I guess I need to do some more reading.

  • Penny

    It has always been my understanding you follow the law (federal or state) that benefits the employee if there are contradicting laws.

  • Carrie

    Like Penny says, whatever law benefits the employee more is what you follow. For example, in Tennessee, the state provides 16 weeks of unpaid leave for the birth of a child so employees get an extra 4 weeks.

  • GT

    In CA, FMLA and CFRA (California Family Rights Act) run concurrenlty in all cases except during a pregnancy. an expectant mother could use up all her FMLA rights during the pregnancy and still be eligible for baby bonding under CFRA while the father is eligible under both FMLA and CFRA

  • MMAN

    Imagine that, another penalty for those who choose marriage instead of “shacking up” together.

  • Common Sense

    @MMAN You stole the words out of my mouth. I don’t think the government could make it more backwards if they tried.

  • Trace

    @Mman and Commo Sense, maybe they are divorced?

  • Common Sense

    @ Trace. Does not matter, either way they are incentivising “shacking up” and/or divorce while penalizing marriage. Many parts of the tax law do the same thing.

  • Penny

    I would think that this leave would be the same as any other law. You have to use the federal or state law that benefits the employee most.