Best of HRTechNews: 4 e-mails managers shouldn’t send
May 25, 2009 by StaffPosted in: In this week's e-newsletter
Most managers love e-mail — it gives them an easy way to quickly communicate with large groups of staffers. But here’s the downside:
It’s easier for conversations to turn sour when conducted electronically.
Vanderbilt and Rice Universities conducted an experiment about the differences between e-mail and other types of communication. Two groups were placed in identical tense negotiating scenarios. Some people were told to talk via e-mail, the others face-to-face or over the phone.
Here’s how the negotiations turned out:
- The subjects in the phone/face-to-face group were able to work out their differences, but
- Negotiations broke down in the e-mail group, with conversations more often ending in anger and insults.
Researchers noted that e-mails don’t allow the writer to adjust the message based on the recipients reaction, and the lack of immediate back-and-forth conversation makes it easier for arguments to stew and get worse.
Do’s and don’ts for managers
What it means for supervisors: Some conversations are better held in person. Never use e-mail to avoid difficult discussions — most likely, that strategy will only backfire.
Experts recommend managers make the effort to dial a phone or hold a face-to-face meeting to talk about tense subjects, such as:
- discipline
- warnings about poor performance or mistakes in an employee’s work
- salary discussions, and
- changes to an employee’s workload.



June 26th, 2009 at 9:52 am
While I agree with the above guidance with re to communication of disciplinary, salary, workload issues, I have also coached my managers in the past to always follow up verbal coaching sessions with a written email summarizing the discussion and expectations. This way there is a documentation trail as well as clarity in expectations. This has ’saved’ us many a time when further discipline was needed.
June 26th, 2009 at 10:20 am
I think that e-mail in place of a letter/memo as confirmation of a face-to-face coaching discussion or for low-level discipline is acceptable.
July 17th, 2009 at 1:20 pm
I agree with Don and Nan. Documentation is necessary, and e-mail confirmation is acceptable.