What Happens When HR is Burned Out?

HR leaders focus so much on employee well-being, they often neglect themselves. So what happens when HR is burned out?

Here’s how bad it is: According to Sage’s report, “The Changing Face of HR:“

• 81% of HR pros are regularly stressed
• 84% are personally burned out
• 95% feel HR is too much work
• 91% agree the last several years have been challenging, and
• 62% are considering leaving HR.

We tend to overlook this occupational hazard: HR and other executives focus on employees’ well-being while neglecting their own. In reality, you likely provide health advice and resources but don’t use them.

“Executives are just as much at risk as their employees. Executives may face different challenges, but face the same risk of overwhelming exhaustion, detachment and ineffectiveness that others may face,” says  Dr. Millard Brown, the Chief Medical Officer at Spring Health.

If HR is burned out, you can’t help employees avoid burnout. In fact, you probably can’t help anyone with anything, at any time.

Recognize the Signs

To avoid – or bounce back from – burnout, the first thing is to recognize and admit you’re suffering.

“As leaders, we can only serve and attend to the needs of those we lead if we are well-grounded, open to hearing feedback, and present in the moment,” Brown says. “We have the opportunity to lead by example in recognizing and taking the time to care for ourselves so that we can then lead others well with intention.”

Burnout becomes visible in three critical areas: Professional. Emotional. Physical. Look for these signs.

Professional

• Inefficacy: You’ve lost confidence and belief in your ability to be effective
• Mental distance: You feel detached, negative and/or cynical about your work
• Mental drain: You feel tired of your work, demands and expectations, and
• Spinning wheels: You accomplish little or nothing while working toward the same issues and concerns over and over.

Emotional

• Feeling unappreciated, bored and/or resentful
• Impatience and irritability with colleagues, clients and/or family
• Feeling detached, isolated and lonely
• Feeling overwhelmed, disillusioned, apathetic and/or hopeless
• Excessive self-criticism and dissatisfaction
• Difficulties with concentration, and
• Anxiety and depression.

Physical

• Chronic fatigue
• Chest pains and headaches
• Insomnia
• Appetite and weight loss or, on the other side, binge eating and weight gain
• Breathlessness, dizziness palpitations, and/or feeling faint
• Frequent illnesses and infections from a compromised immune system, and
• Withdrawal from social and professional situations.

5 Ways to Manage (or Avoid) Burnout

The hope is you aren’t suffering from this many or this degree of symptoms. But the research showed the truth is that nearly all HR pros found the last few years challenging.

So even if you feel stressed, but not yet burned out, you want to regain control. Here are five proven strategies:

1. Get Serious about Self-Care

It’s relatively simple to promote self-care, but not so simple to practice it. Executives get busy putting out fires, strategizing and staying focused on success for the good of all employees. So you put self-care on a back burner.

“Commit to practicing self-care with adequate sleep, proper nutrition, regular exercise, and maintaining social connections with others,” Brown says. “You may not be able to do it all at once, but you can pick one to start with and commit to a plan of action to build new practices in caring for yourself.”

That’s the key: Start with just one element of self-care that’s most important – and achievable – for you to accomplish.

2. Step Away Every Day

You want to purposefully step away from work every day. The good news is you don’t have to step away for an hour or half an hour (although that’s a good lunch break). You can take microbreaks – short moments to pause, breathe and reset your nervous system – throughout the day. You can find tips on that in this episode of HRMorning’s 3-Point.

“Many leaders nowadays have found that a regular meditation practice is one ritual that helps them take care of themselves daily and protect against burnout,” says Jo Ilfeld, Founder and CEO of Incite to Leadership. “But that’s not the only way; regular time outdoors, a spiritual practice, or a gratitude journal are all research-proven ways to help leaders prevent a downward slide toward burnout.”

3. Unplug — But Not as Much as You Think!

We all know it’s important to unplug from our devices, but it’s so hard to do when it feels like someone or something on the other end needs attention.

Still, “research has shown us that leaders that completely unplug for one night mid-week – just one, folks! – were much more likely to look forward to going to work in the mornings and feel fulfilled at their jobs,” Ilfeld says. “Taking one night off a week is a small price to pay for continued energy, and it’s also great modeling and permission for your team so they don’t get burned out as well.”

4. Talk About Burnout

Feeling burned out doesn’t have to be a secret or a badge of shame.

You just want to approach the conversation with your boss with a plan. Ron Carucci, author of Rising to Power, suggests you talk about burnout with your boss like this:

• Get over yourself. You help people. You don’t normally ask for help. But burnout is more real than ever. If you’ve always had an honest relationship with your boss, he or she will respect how you feel and what you need.
• Be honest, specific. Tell your boss you wouldn’t bring it up if it wasn’t critical to you. Explain that you’re uncomfortable with the situation. Then give specific details of what you’re experiencing – any symptoms from the list above.
• Take responsibility for anything that has suffered – work quality, your attitude, personal relationships. Don’t apologize for being burned out. Just recognize what burnout has done to your performance or behavior.
• Ask for help. Be clear that you want help, what the solution might look like and how you want to be part of the solution. Avoid complaining or demanding.

5. Be Social

It’s lonely at the top – and nothing proves that more than when you burn out and have no one to turn to for support.

You support employees. Who can help when you’re stressed or overwhelmed?

Some experts suggest executives pursue workshops, peer support groups, retreats and professional organizations. Those can help you gain a fresh perspective and positive attitude. Don’t wait until you’re stressed, either. If you’re involved with similarly situated people, you already have a network of support.