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Build the Relationships That Matter Most at Work | 2-Minute Video

Michele McGovern
By: Michele McGovern
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Michele McGovern writes. A lot. These days, she covers HR, digging deep into company culture, DEI, leadership, management and the everchanging world of work. In the years between getting a BA in journalism from a state school and writing about HR, she wrote about big-city crime for a wire service and small-town life for local newspapers. She’s a mediocre mom, decent wife, wannabe athlete and consummate pursuer of fun - on land, snow and water. Find her on LinkedIn @michele-mcgovern-writer.

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Last Updated: July 28, 2026
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The 3-Point from HRMorning podcast thumbnail about how to build the relationships that matter most at work, featuring guest Laura Shanley discussing workplace connection strategies, team collaboration, and employee engagement culture.

When it comes to recognition, the person who gives it is just as important as the message.

Sure, it’s important for the boss to recognize employees. But peer-to-peer recognition packs the most punch: Employee relationships matter most.

What’s Up in This Episode: Building Better Relationships

That’s based on research and observation from Awardco. In this episode of HRMorning’s 3-Point, our expert, Laura Shanley, who is at the heart of the Center of Excellence at Awardco, explains what their research found about relationships and recognition. She also gives us tips on building those important relationships.

Click, watch and listen for more details on the importance of building the right relationships to foster a great company culture.

Transcript (edited for clarity):

Quick – who do you think should recognize employees for their contributions at work? The boss? The CEO? Or their co-workers? In this episode of the 3-Point, you’ll find out, plus some tips on building the relationships that matter most.

Laura Shanley, Center of Excellence, Awardco: “One really interesting thing that actually surprised us in the data was that we researched — we looked at who the recognition came from and what impact it had. And what we found and what we saw is that peer-to-peer recognition, while it didn’t necessarily indicate someone’s staying at the company, it did indicate higher well-being.”   

There you have it: Employees want to hear from their peers. Their friends. Awardco researchers aren’t the only ones to have found a correlation between thriving employees and friendship.

Shanley: “So the way it’s related to friendships is I think about it that, you know, we can’t force friendships, right? But we can create an environment where it’s more likely for friendships to grow.” 

Of course, as she said, we don’t force friendships, despite knowing that they improve employee well-being and workplace culture. But you can’t just hope people become friends.

Shanley: “I think that companies just have to be really intentional about creating those opportunities for people. And then that could look like, you know, opportunities for people to connect.”

But we can’t say that without recognizing that many of our workplaces are hybrid and remote.

Shanley: “Even if we can’t get together in person and play on the softball team, we can get together on a Zoom call and connect with one another. In fact, just before this call, I was on a Zoom with my work bestie, and we were just laughing so hard I was crying.”

So how do we help employees build relationships that improve experience and culture?

  • Create opportunities. Give them time, events and space to socialize beyond typical interactions.
  • Keep them connected. If you have a hybrid or remote workforce, do the same. Virtual connections matter, too.
  • Don’t force it. The best friendships are born naturally. And some workplace friendships aren’t meant to be.

You can find more episodes of the 3-Point and our podcast, Voices of HR, to help you improve employee experience and culture on our HRMorning YouTube Page. And thanks for joining me for this episode.

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